tHe LOvE ViRuS

I love giving talks about love, dating and relationships! Believe me, I'm not a love guru but i always tell my students and my clients to keep on loving--you see, love is always a good feeling (especially if that love is shared by two people)!People have been falling in and out of love since the beginning of time and believe me--these stories are always blockbusters! (remember the romeo and juliet, twilight and titanic fever?!). This crazy thing called love is really something!

In genuine love--it takes a lot of courage to open up your heart to someone else and the strength in the lovers is just as magical as any fantasy inspired stories. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But really--what is love?

FROM A SCHOLASTIC POINT OF VIEW--one can easily say that love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. These definitions really makes love more abstract and scholastic. SO... WHAT REALLY IS LOVE?

Many love-guru believes that love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Romantic love is always a deep, intense and unending. It is shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. In realistic view--LOVE THEN IS embracing differences and discovering ways in which to build a common lifestyle, share decision-making, and taking equal responsibility for the results.Love is a decision. Love is a mysterious, magical, complex, difficult, imaginary, thought-provoking, inspirational, intuitional, joyous, immeasurable, ecstasy, and undefinable human reality. It cannot be defined by words--but it can be defined by the common feeling directed at someone who acknowledges the goodness of the beloved.

For those who are in love--then--be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other and always be there for each other's need...and surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship.